.: ideal vs real :.

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This post is kinda cheating because it's already Wednesday, but oh well! :D A phone call with Yon always trigger deep conversation (weird, eh? even if we talk less than 5 minutes, the topic is always serious!) Yon & I got into a conversation about not losing track of our ideals while pursuing what's real. The creative types are in big trouble because we're idealistic to the core. Logic rarely work charms on us. We challenge logic. Let's all be honest here: we all have hopes and wishes that we sometimes have to sacrifice for the sake of keeping what's real. We abandoned what we really want for something that 'makes sense.' Every disappointment, every unfulfilled wish, everything that we deemed as 'childish' and ignored, are going to add up and eventually 'kill' you. It's never okay to loses focus of who you really are just to make people 'likes' you. When the right one comes along, every single piece will fall into place. These people should never stop make efforts, constantly showing you how they really care about you, and strive to make you happy. Love is not a word; it's all about the action. The gestures, the sweet little things they do for you, the random flowers sent to you, the supports whenever you fall (and never say I told you so), how they're sincerely interested in everything you do and say. They have to make you feel special. It's not naive to wish for someone like that. That's real.